harmonious balance

The only thing I love more than being affected, is affecting others.
It comes down to sharing our stories, our gifts, our blessings and our challenges.
Listening to others, learning and growing.
Doing your best and then simply letting go.

peace & God bless
tom j deters

Contact: tomjdeters@gmail.com

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After a while…

AFTER A WHILE YOU LEARN THE SUBTLE DIFFERENCE

BETWEEN HOLDING A HAND AND CHAINING A SOUL.

YOU LEARN  THAT LOVE DOESN’T MEAN LEANING AND

COMPANY DOESN’T MEAN SECURITY,  YOU BEGIN TO

LEARN THAT KISSES AREN’T CONTRACTS AND

PRESENTS AREN’T PROMISES. YOU BEGIN TO ACCEPT

YOUR DEFEATS WITH YOUR HEAD UP AND YOUR EYES

OPEN, WITH THE GRACE OF AN ADULT, NOT THE GRIEF

OF A CHILD. YOU LEARN TO BUILD ALL YOUR ROADS

ON  TODAY BECAUSE TOMORROW’S GROUND IS TOO

UNCERTAIN FOR PLANS.  AFTER A WHILE YOU LEARN

THAT EVEN SUNSHINE BURNS IF YOU GET TOO MUCH.

SO PLANT YOUR OWN GARDEN AND DECORATE YOUR

OWN SOUL INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO

BRING YOU FLOWERS.  YOU LEARN THAT YOU REALLY

CAN ENDURE, THAT YOU REALLY ARE STRONG, AND

THAT YOU REALLY DO HAVE WORTH.

- author unknown